Wednesday, May 1, 2019

praying effectively: Be a Good Friend (Pv.18)

(Proverbs 18:1-24)
 He who separates himself seeks his own desire, he quarrels against all sound wisdom.
A fool does not delight in understanding, but only in revealing his own mind.
When a wicked man comes, contempt also comes, and with dishonor comes scorn.
The words of a man’s mouth are deep waters; the fountain of wisdom is a bubbling brook.
To show partiality to the wicked is not good, nor to thrust aside the righteous in judgment.
A fool’s lips bring strife, and his mouth calls for blows.
fool’s mouth is his ruin, and his lips are the snare of his soul.
The words of a whisperer are like dainty morsels, and they go down into the innermost parts of the body.
He also who is slack in his work is brother to him who destroys.
10 The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous runs into it and is safe.
11 rich man’s wealth is his strong city, and like a high wall in his own imagination.
12 Before destruction the heart of man is haughty, but humility goes before honor.
13 He who gives an answer before he hears, it is folly and shame to him.
14 The spirit of a man can endure his sickness, but as for a broken spirit who can bear it?
15 The mind of the prudent acquires knowledge, and the ear of the wise seeks knowledge.
16 A man’s gift makes room for him and brings him before great men.
17 The first to plead his case seems right, until another comes and examines him.
18 The cast lot puts an end to strife and decides between the mighty ones.
19 A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city, and contentions are like the bars of a citadel.
20 With the fruit of a man’s mouth his stomach will be satisfied; he will be satisfied with the product of his lips.
21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.
22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
23 The poor man utters supplications, but the rich man answers roughly.
24 A man of too many friends comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
Reminder:  "praying effectively" involves knowing God's will.  When we pray in His will (in His name), He may choose to not answer those prayers in the time period that we would like, or HOW we would like - but He will answer those prayers!

It is God's will:
- that we run to the Lord for our refuge (18:10)
- that we are wise and prudent, always seeking and acquiring knowledge (18:15)
- that we do not show favoritism to the wicked (18:5)
- that we don't make friends simply for the reason to have more friends; but we should spend our time nurturing our friendships with God's love as our motive (18:24)
- that we speak with purity and clarity, without hidden motives (18:4)
- that we listen before we speak (18:13)
- that we speak constructively, with healing and encouragement (18:20)

Today's prayer:

Dear Lord Jesus, thank You for being the perfect friend.  Help us to remember to run to You with every little detail of our lives.  Protect us from evil.  Give us insight into knowing whom we should avoid.  Help us to find godly friends.  Help us to BE godly friends, always wanting the best for others.  Give us direction in how to nurture our friendships with the right motives at heart.  Amen.

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